Sorry for the slow response...
_isResetOnRevisit is listed as one of the Core Model Attributes, I'm a little bit surprised to find it's not already available as a setting in the AT for all components - just like
_isAvailable are. I'm not quite sure why that should be... maybe someone else can shed some light on why? It may just be an oversight...
Regardless I don't see any reason why you shouldn't be able to add it to your component's properties.schema - the only caveat being that if it does get added to the core component schema you may have to take it out again.